- When I think of being REALLY truthful with myself and with others I think of the Yiddish word Emess. Two sources come to mind: 1) my mother who always said “It’s the Emess”, when she either told the truth, lied, or didn’t know she was lying and completely made shit up out of thin air (confabulation) and 2) from the late great comedian Lenny Bruce who would tell the most outrageous and unbelievable stories, while swearing all the time that they were absolutely true. And–they WERE! Poor Lenny, toward the end of his unfortunate life became a Lenny Bruce routine himself, a sad, not very funny, one. During his criminal trial for obscenity, he jumped up as an undercover cop was describing his comic routine and tried to inject Emessness into the proceeding by yelling “I object! He’s stealing my routine and not paying me for it.” One laughed and cried at the same time. Lenny became a near scholar of the Law and it’s often unfair and unjust application, worshipping it as it was destroying him. As he pored through legal tracts and page after page of its complicated legalese jargon, he was in awe of its apparent “Majesty.” More so than were the judges who convicted him and his relentless-Javert-like–prosecutor in that dingy courtroom.
The essence of EMESSNESS is often total ridiculousness and absurdity underneath the garb of seriousness. Its the “stuff” in life that makes you drop your head in disbelief and mutter to yourself, “I can’t fucking believe this…” It’s a concept liberally sprinkled throughout the Coen Brothers movies, especially ones like, “A Serious Man” Emmis
This case is a paradigmatic example of Emess-ness and I choose it only because the Truth is often ludicrous–and some people such as myself absolutely revel in ludicrousness and contradiction. Translation: Life and truth are often complex phenomena but most people prefer to resolve complexity in life by simply deciding to listen to their own self-centered self-interest and biased perspective (one side of a multi-sided coin) or based on a simple but pronounced (rather than profound) FEELING. Feelings? Nothing more than feeling? Let me tell you, raw unfiltered emotion is not usually recommended as a way to do business, elect a President or judge someones innocence or guilt……and yet we all do it, some more than others, practically every day of our lives, and often without ever looking back to see if maybe we made a “boo-boo”. There’s actually a lot of boo-boos out there….. some worse than others.